Etiquette 101: Be a Good BDSM Event Guest

BDSM events and play parties can be an exciting and thrilling way to explore your kinks and fetishes, but it’s important to know the proper etiquette to ensure that everyone has a safe and enjoyable time. Here are some tips and techniques for navigating a BDSM event:

1. Respect the rules of the event or party.
   Every event or party will have its own set of rules, so make sure you read and understand them before arriving. Common rules may include no photography, no touching without consent, and no drugs or alcohol. Read the Voodoo Basic Rules and Expectations.
2. Ask for consent before touching or playing with anyone.
   BDSM play parties are all about consent, so make sure you ask before touching or playing with anyone. If someone says no, respect their decision and move on.
3. Be mindful of your clothing and grooming.
   Many BDSM events have a dress code, so make sure you are dressed appropriately. Also, make sure you are clean and well-groomed before arriving.
4. Avoid perfume, cologne, or other strong scents.
   Many people are sensitive to fragrance, and strong scents can be overwhelming or trigger allergic reactions. Since play spaces often involve close contact and shared air, choose unscented or lightly scented products instead. Cleanliness and neutral body scent are always appreciated more than heavy cologne or perfume.
5. Be aware of your surroundings.
   Be aware of the people around you and the activities that are happening. If something makes you uncomfortable, leave the area and find something else to do.
6. Be respectful of everyone’s boundaries.
   Everyone has different boundaries, so make sure you respect them. If someone tells you they don’t want to be touched, don’t touch them. Ask if someone is huggable before offering them a hug.
7. Be open-minded.
   BDSM events and play parties are a place for people to explore their kinks and fetishes, so be open-minded and don’t judge others for what they enjoy.
8. Have fun! So, relax and enjoy yourself!

Remember to always be respectful of others and to ask for consent before engaging in any activity.